In Case You Missed It!

Here's a look at the newest bike rider on the block - Wyatt Parker!!!

This was one of the top five parenting moments so far for sure.  I have to admit I teared up a little during this event.  We've come a long way together, that kid and I.  Riding a bike...starting Kindergarten next year...then off to college!!  Or at least that's what it feels like to me :)

Staying Home - Two Years Later

A couple of weeks ago I was waiting in line to get into the Sesame Street show with the kids and lapsed into one of my favorite pasttimes: people watching.  Everywhere I looked, there were moms and their kids, and this is what I saw: moms looking bored. Moms looking at their Iphones (while their kids ran in circles).  Moms doling out fruit snacks and juice boxes.  Frazzled moms, exhausted moms, and frustrated moms.  I had one of those moments where I looked around at all the other moms toting diaper bags, strollers, and sippy cups while balancing a baby on the hip and thought: "This is crazy. This is what my life has become!"  Why didn't any of the moms look happy?

I try to be a mom who has fun with her kids - I try to focus on experiences, on teachable moments, on things that matter.  I don't get mad when juice gets spilled on the carpet or peas end up all over the floor.  It's okay with me that Oobleck makes a mess all over my kitchen and that paint gets on the kids' clothes.  It all cleans up...it is all okay.

Last February, my mom was visitng and I took her to play Bunco with my Bunco group.  My friend showed up to Bunco sporting a big pink streak in her blondish hair.  Her husband was a little more than halfway through his one-year deployment to Iraq, and she was busy raising her three boys while he was gone.  She told me, "I just needed to remind myself of who I am.  I am so caught up in the boys...I don't even know who I am anymore!"

I didn't get it at the time.  But I totally get it now.  I really do.

It is so easy to get caught up in the mundane - changing diapers, cleaning crayon off the wall, breaking up the kids' all-too-frequent fights.  It's easy to forget the fun in all of it.

This morning Olivia woke me up at 5:30 a.m. yelling, "Mommeeeeeee! Mommeeeee!" Wyatt followed shortly after that.  They were both cranky and the fighting began early today.  To stop the fighting I asked Wyatt to help me make the pancakes to keep him busy.  He said, "I want pumpkin pancakes!"

He has loved Pumpkin pancakes ever since the recipe came in his High Five magazine last month.  (THANKS SO MUCH, Mom). So now everytime I make pancakes they must be pumpkin pancakes. 

Let me be clear: Pumpkin pancakes are a PAIN IN THE BUTT. The batter gets too thick and it sticks to my pan and it won't come off, and then it burns. And then it smokes, and then my smoke alarm goes off.  Okay, maybe I'm exaggerating...a little.

But I did NOT want to make pumpkin pancakes.

But as my husband quickly pointed out, "It's not about you."

Totally right, he was.  It's not about me - but sometimes I want it to be.  And I suspect other moms would like that, too.

I've never been much of a giver. It's hard for me to be selfless.  But two years later, I'm getting much better at it. It was pumpkin pancakes all around.

Sesame Street!

Sesame Street and the USO have had a long-standing relationship where Sesame Street travels overseas to do shows specifically for military kids on overseas military bases.  They touch on topics specific to military kids like deployments, reunions, and moving to help kids with transition.  Wyatt and I were lucky enough to see their show two years ago right after we moved here, and this time I got to take both kids to the show!


Sesame Street is a BIG deal here.  People line up to get tickets at crazy hours of the morning. I was lucky and just waltzed in after I dropped off Wyatt at preschool and they still had a few tickets left!  No standing in line for this momma :)

The show we went to was last Friday, and we actually scored seats in the 2nd row!  I don't really know how that happened, but it was awesome.  I thought Wyatt would be too "old" for Sesame Street (he won't watch it on TV anymore) but he really loved it.  The show was perfect for him right now - it was about a girl named Katie who was leaving her friends and moving far away. It was a combination of songs/dancing and lines by the characters, and I can't tell you how this show hit home for us.  Just two nights earlier, Wyatt had an all-out sobbing breakdown telling me, "I don't WANT to move! I want to stay in JAPAN! I will miss my friends!!"  I know it because he was overly tired and missed his daddy, but it still broke my heart.

We were so close to the stage that Wyatt (maroon striped shirt) got to shake hands/touch several of the characters when they came off stage into the audience!  He was soooo excited about it!  He got to touch Cookie Monster, Rosita, Elmo, and a couple of others.  Then at the end, the kids got to go right up to the front of the stage and dance the last number and touch the characters.

Olivia, on the other hand, was absolutely terrified!  She spent the majority of the show clutching my neck and fearing for her life.  I know this sounds bad, but it was pretty funny to me!  My kids have never been afraid of much, fearless in fact, so this was interesting to see.  She calmed down once the loud music and dancing subsided, but her face says it all!

We are so lucky there are so many great programs and support for military families overseas.  Unfortunately, a lot of these programs have been cut altogether or funding drastically reduced in the last month or two because of the obvious budget situation.  It makes me sad to see some really important programs, like parents' night out programs, deployed spouse child care, and tuition assistance for active duty Marines being cut.  I know the cuts have to happen somewhere but I  hate seeing the impact it has right here on our military.

He's Baaa-aack!

This is a picture of Tommy & Wyatt on the afternoon we went to see Daddy's ship and to load Tommy's gear onto the boat.  You can see him hauling some of his gear, and you can sort of see the ships up ahead. 

Let me just say that this deployment has been an emotional rollercoaster.  I know they all are, and I am by far luckier than most.  But it is so true what they say about Marine Corps spouses - we are certainly Semper Gumby ("always flexible")!

If you've been following this de ployment you know that he left, came back, left again for 6 weeks with a supposed extension, and then we received word our Marines would be home for a brief 24 hours to offload equipment between exercises.  Of course the timeline for those 24 hours changed a million times, but eventually on Friday night I went to pick up our Marine.  I didn't tell the kids about it, because frankly I wasn't entirely sure it would even happen and there were too many changes in the wind.

But he did get here, and actually, he ended up staying here.  He was one of just a handful from his squadron who stayed behind.  It's a long story, but once again it has worked in our favor and I am thankful to have him home for a few extra weeks and for Thanksgiving and Christmas!

I sort of feel like I have won the deployment lottery.  In fact, I think the deployment Gods must love me, because as I type this, many of my friends do not have the luxury of saying or even thinking such things while their husbands sail on to their next mission, or dump sand out of their boots from the desert.

We have much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. :)

Chicken & Dumplings!

I discovered this recipe on Crock Pot Girls' Facebook page and I love it. I probably make it twice a month, at least.  I LOVE IT!  It is easy, the kids love it, and I almost always have the ingredients on hand.  I also like to make it for others when I make people meals after they have babies or what not.  We're heading into 'winter' season and this is down home comfort food!

I pkg. chicken breasts
1-2 cans cream of chicken soup (or celery - I've even use one can each of chicken and mushroom)
1/2 can water
salt, pepper, garlic powder to taste
1-2 cans refrigerated biscuits
Peas/carrots

Put chicken in crockpot  (you can dump these in frozen, if you like), cover with soup, water, and season to taste.  Cook until tender.  About 45 minutes before serving, cut up the biscuits (I quarter them) and throw on top.  Cover with the lid again and they'll bake right in the crockpot.

I make the peas/carrots separately because my kids will eat it better that way (no idea why) but you could easily dump them in the crockpot with everything else, too.

It's soooo yummmy! Give it a try and let me know how you like it!

(Nerissa, I thought of you when I posted this - I know you have your hands full these days!)